It's Ok That You're Not Ok: Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture That Doesn't Understand

Overview

When a painful loss or life-shattering event upends your world, here is the first thing to know: there is nothing wrong with grief. Grief is simply love in its most wild and painful form, says Megan Devine. It is a natural and sane response to loss. So, why does our culture treat grief like a disease to be cured as quickly as possible?  In It's OK That You're Not OK, Megan Devine offers a profound new approach to both the experience of grief and the way we try to help others who have endured tragedy. Having experienced grief from both sides--as both a therapist and as a woman who witnessed the accidental drowning of her beloved partner--Megan writes with deep insight about the unspoken truths of loss, love, and healing. She debunks the culturally prescribed goal of returning to a normal, happy life, replacing it with a far healthier middle path, one that invites us to build a life alongside grief rather than seeking to overcome it. In this compelling and heartful book, you'll learn:  - Why well-meaning advice, therapy, and spiritual wisdom so often end up making it harder for people in grief  - How challenging the myths of grief--doing away with stages, timetables, and unrealistic ideals about how grief should unfold--allows us to accept grief as a mystery to be honored instead of a problem to solve  - Practical guidance for managing stress, improving sleep, and decreasing anxiety without trying to fix your pain  - How to help the people you love--with essays to teach us the best skills, checklists, and suggestions for supporting and comforting others through the grieving process  Many people who have suffered a loss feel judged, dismissed, and misunderstood by a culture that wants to solve grief. Megan writes, Grief no more needs a solution than love needs a solution. Through stories, research, life tips, and creative and mindfulness-based practices, she offers a unique guide through an experience we all must face--in our personal lives, in the lives of those we love, and in the wider world.  It's OK That You're Not OK is a book for grieving people, those who love them, and all those seeking to love themselves--and each other--better. The book, It's Ok That You're Not Ok: Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture That Doesn't Understand [Bulk, Wholesale, Quantity] ISBN# 9781622039074 in Paperback by Monica Devine may be ordered in bulk quantities. Minimum starts at 25 copies. Availability based on publisher status and quantity being ordered.